Winter comes, you can catch me in my warmest, most comfortable and coldest weather. I fly over knitting projects, read all the books, and cook the warmest soups for every meal. But while I love spending all my weekends and weeknights on personal growth and deepening the relationship I have with myself, it doesn’t make much time for dating. In an effort to put myself out more this year and start 2022 as my boldest self, unrelated to my defense — in other words, I’m committed to changing everything. rank. I’m pulling myself away from my favorite spot (the couch) and finding that connection, spontaneity, and that elusive spark. Whether you’re single like me or in a long-term relationship, I’ve rounded up the best winter date ideas for everyone whose love life might shake up a little during the season. this.
Need an idea for an upcoming first date-IRL? Or maybe you’ve been with your lover for years, and you’d rather fall asleep at 8 p.m. than go out for dinner and drinks again. Wherever you find yourself in the range of relationship status, it’s easy to fall back to our tried-and-true picks. Especially in winter, when the weather and shorter days seem to narrow our options, it’s hard to think of something fun and exciting to do together.
Here’s the truth: Honestly, sometimes I just don’t have the energy for all that dating. Dating as we know it the traditional way, it can feel like a chore. There are so many productions that involve the exchange of messages and countless changes of clothes in search of the perfect outfit (okay, I really like that part). Well, I’m here to tell you (and convince myself) that dating can and should be fun. A little planning and brainstorming time is well worth the effort.
Dates give you the opportunity to open up and share yourself with others. And when you try something a little out of the ordinary, you can grow closer by connecting through shared experiences.
So let’s have fun already! Here are 19 winter date ideas that offer something for everyone. Be active, creative and ready for sparks.
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Read on for all the winter day ideas your season needs.
Something creative
Cook a new meal. If you have been a couple for a while or are living together, you can repeat a few separate recipes. Shake and spice up (literally) by opening a new cookbook or searching the Internet for a dish you’ve always wanted to try. And don’t worry if the meal doesn’t work out – it’s the act of cooking together that’s the best part.
Handle a project. Do you have a big house mission you’ve been meaning to take on? Let’s do it together! While it may not seem like the most romantic night, both of you will get a sense of accomplishment from looking over a project. Bonus points if you end the evening with pizza and wine – as you both deserve to be rewarded for all your hard work.
Pretend to lose power. You don’t have to wait for a winter storm to make this date happen. Turn the clock back one hundred years and kill the lamp. Pile up your flimsiest blankets, light a few candles, and order in advance. It’s the perfect intimate setting for an evening of purposeful conversation.
Make breakfast for dinner. While scallops or pasta is certainly a romantic dish that I never pass up, there’s something inherently comforting about mixing waffle dough or flipping pancakes side by side on the stove. Make it extra special by adding bloody mimosas or marys to your menu.
Something cozy
Build a fortress. Remember the scene in Vacations when Cameron Diaz ducked into Jude Law’s daughter’s fortress? I’m sure it is, and from the first time I saw that movie, I promised myself that I would make a fortress with that special someone in the future. Take blankets, pillows, and any other fortress-building supplies you have around and turn the living room into your own secret hideaway.
Cuddling in front of the fire. What’s better than zoning out and cuddling in front of the fireplace? There’s a reason Netflix has three-hour specials dedicated to exactly that.
Race your favorite sensational movies. If you’re like me, this means a compilation of all the best Nora Ephron and Nancy Meyers movies, but your partner may have different tastes. Pick a movie and watch, laugh or cry. Oh, and don’t forget snacks.
Something inspirational
Give back. You know that volunteering is fun doing it on your own or even with a group of friends, but it can be an especially strong connection point between you and your date. “Helper highs” are a real phenomenon, and returning favors is a great way to establish closeness and get in the mood for one another.
Visit the museum. Or a gallery, an exhibition — anything that takes you out of the house and immerses you in a new medium, art movement, or subject. Learning art or diving into a new topic can inspire thoughtful conversation and help each learn more about how the other thinks and sees the world.
Plan a trip. Is there anything better than dreaming big together? While winter may not be the best time to go away, planning for the future and mapping out a getaway can create excitement and anticipation for the months to come. Pick a place you’ve always wanted to explore, look up hotels, create a Pinterest board, and even check out flights. Sometimes, the best part of a trip can be the planning itself.
Learn a new skill. There is such a thing as intentional screen time. Choose a project or hobby that you both want to try, or agree on a skill each wants to master. Sites like Skillshare, edX, Coursera, and even Harvard University offer a wide range of online courses. There’s nothing like connecting a shared love of learning.
Listen to a lecture. One of the benefits of Online life is increasingly moving as cultural centers, bookstores, and even universities are offering eye-opening virtual talks and readings. New York City’s 92Y has a ton of online events to choose from, and you can check out sites like Open Culture and Edukatico for even more options. If you’re nervous about having something to say, here’s the trick.
Something outdoors
Play in the snow. Whether it’s sledding, snowshoeing, snowshoeing, or building a snowman, just getting out and enjoying these fluffy whites will fill both of you with childlike joy.
Go to the beach. I’m not joking. While some might think the beach is only for the months of May through September, there’s something about walking along the water that is meditative, healing and of course, romantic. If it’s not too cold, be sure to bring picnic gear and a thermos of hot cocoa.
Long walk. Like going for a walk, but on a whole new level. Research local trails in your area or plan a larger trip out into nature. You’ll get a good workout, plenty of time to chat, and see some stunning views along the way.
Explore a bit of green space. Spend some time in your garden, park, or any public space in your city or town with attractions to see. You can book tickets at a botanical garden or look for flowers that bloom in their most vibrant season in winter. Some can even stay open in the evening, creating the perfect mood lighting.
Something is working
Try climbing. Reach new heights as a couple and book some time at your local climbing gym. Climbing is not only a great workout, but it’s also a mental challenge, making for a first, third, or who-knows-who-we’re real date. uniqueness.
Work together. I’m serious. As we all know, exercise offers a lot of benefits beyond the physical benefits that a good workout can give you. Endorphins are sure really and warming up together can be a good premise for, well, you know…
Take a dance lesson. Who doesn’t love a good dance party? While you can sign up for classes in the studio, you can also set up a class at home with the help of YouTube. Slide the couch to the side and free up some space so you can move around comfortably.
