24 Intimacy Questions to Deepen Your Relationship

Over the years, I’ve enjoyed (and have worked tirelessly to perfect), a laid-back yet romantic dinner at home for Valentine’s Day. The process is very simple and it starts with setting the mood. You know it: dim the lights, burn your favorite music and prepare a delicious meal to bake in the oven. Later? Prepare for presence. To make any night with your partner more meaningful, I highly recommend asking these 24 questions to create intimacy.

While atmosphere is key to an intimate evening at home, without engaging conversation, even the best setting can fall apart. So, let go of the stress of the day or the week and discuss with purposeful questions that will help you grow more deeply in your relationship. Because here’s an important PSA to keep in mind: Valentine’s Day can be more than just an expensive dinner or a bouquet of flowers. With the right mindset, intention and questionit can deepen your love and bring fresh and exciting atmosphere to your relationship.

Take a look at these questions and jot down your favorites. Hopefully the conversations they inspire will take you to exciting places with your loved one. Because however you decide to spend the evening, that’s really the goal, isn’t it?

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1. What were my three qualities that you were first attracted to?
2. What’s the question you’ve always wanted to ask me but never had?
3. What do you remember when we fell in love?
4. How do you like to show love?
5. How do you like to show love?
6. What were my three qualities that you were first attracted to?
7. What makes you feel most loved?
8. When do you feel most proud of me?
9. Out of the five senses, which one do you think is the most erotic?
10. What do you think young people will think about our relationship?
11. If you could relive one day together, what day would it be?
12. Is there anything you’re afraid to accomplish that I can help you with?
13. Is our relationship physical enough for you? And what would make it better in your eyes?
14. How and where do you like to be touched?
15. Do you have a fantasy that you would like to fulfill?
16. What’s the closest thing you’ve ever felt to me?
17. What is the best part of our relationship?
18. My most attractive feature is…?
19. Is there something we haven’t tried that you’d like?
20. Which movie do you think will reflect our relationship?
21. How and when did you know we would become a couple?
22. If you didn’t have to work, what would you do with your life?
23. What is the best way I can make you feel loved?
24. What is your favorite memory of us?

Have you and your partner tried asking targeted questions to create intimacy and connection? We’d love to know how that affects your relationship in the comments.